Woman Cancels Prolia Prescription After Her Endocrinologist Sees What Happened to Her Bone Density in 6 Months

By Dr. Jennifer Norton, MD
Leading Orthopedic Doctor Medically reviewed · Updated June 8, 2026

She spent almost £3,000 on calcium and supplements and her bones were worse than ever. Then a retired research nurse from Johns Hopkins asked her one question that changed everything. Here is her story, in her own words.

This is who I was 8 months ago. Awake at 2 in the morning, terrified, out of answers.

The moment my endocrinologist saw my 6-month follow-up DEXA scan, she cancelled my Prolia prescription and asked what I had been taking.

I just stared at her, confused. Taking? I had been taking everything.

Calcium citrate, because I had read carbonate does not absorb well. Vitamin D3, not D2. K2 as MK-7 because that is the form that stays in your system longer. Magnesium glycinate at night. I was not guessing. I had spent months reading studies and comparing labels.

"Something changed. Your lumbar spine improved 11% in 6 months. Your hip improved 8%. That does not happen at 61."

The Diagnosis That Changed Everything

8 months earlier, my doctor had called with my DEXA results. "T-score negative 2.7 in your lumbar spine. That is osteoporosis."

I had been taking calcium for years. A big chalky pill every morning, the right form, religiously. "You need to increase your calcium to 1200 milligrams daily," she said. "And we should discuss hormone replacement therapy."

That night I researched HRT. The increased risks after age 60. Blood clots. Stroke. I was ten years past menopause, and the risks scared me more than the diagnosis. But the diagnosis terrified me enough.

My mother had her first fracture at 67. Broke her wrist reaching for a coffee cup. She was gone at 73, 18 months after her hip fracture. The nursing home, watching her shrink into someone I did not recognise. I did not have much time left to fix this.

The mother she watched shrink after a hip fracture. The future she was trying to outrun.

When Doing Everything Right Makes Things Worse

I spent that night googling alternatives to bone loss medications until my eyes burned. Strontium banned in some countries. Vitamin K that might help or might not. Forums full of women as scared as I was, all of us trading suggestions that did not work.

So I dug into the research. Not just what to take, but how it actually works in the body. Calcium citrate absorbs better than carbonate. D3 is the active form. K2 helps direct calcium to bones. MK-7 stays active longer.

I even tried AlgaeCal. The whole-food kind that is supposed to be better. £60 a month for 4 months. That is £240 gone. Between the calcium, the D3, the K2, the magnesium and the AlgaeCal, I was spending over £110 a month on supplements alone.

My next DEXA scan 3 months later? Worse.

Years of calcium. Over £110 a month. And the scans kept getting worse.

The Question That Changed Everything

That is when I called my old friend Janet, a research nurse who had worked at Johns Hopkins for 22 years before she retired.

"Still taking all that calcium?" she asked after I explained. "Of course. The right form. Citrate. 1200 milligrams daily. Plus D3, K2, magnesium."

She was quiet for so long I thought we had been disconnected.

"Where do you think all that calcium is going?"

2:47 in the morning, reading the actual studies. Not supplement marketing.

The Hidden Mechanism Doctors Do Not Learn

She explained it simply. Your bones are alive. Every single day your body tears down a little old bone and builds a little new bone back. A bone is a building site that never closes.

But a site only builds when something tells it to. That something is oestrogen. Oestrogen is the signal that tells bone to rebuild, and the same signal keeps your body making its own collagen, the frame your bones are actually built on. The calcium is only what hardens onto that frame.

"After menopause, when your oestrogen drops, that signal goes dark," she said. "Nothing is telling your bones to build. And the collagen frame your calcium is supposed to lock onto is quietly disappearing. So the calcium has nowhere to go and nothing to hold it."

That is when I finally understood. The supplements were not wrong. The forms were not wrong. The mechanism was wrong. I kept handing my body more calcium when the real problem was that the signal telling it what to do had gone silent, and the frame it needed was gone with it. I had optimised every variable except the one that actually mattered.

The Study That Has Been Published For Years

"I did not say nothing works," Janet said. "I said your bones need oestrogen signalling. Have you ever heard of fulvic acid?"

I had not. That night I could not sleep. I found a study on something called shilajit, pronounced shih-LAH-jeet. An ancient mineral resin studied at Indiana University, Ohio State, and medical institutes around the world. Scientists identified fulvic acid as the main active ingredient.

There is a clinical trial on postmenopausal women, published in Phytomedicine, a peer-reviewed medical journal. Every single woman in the treatment group built her bone density back up. It naturally restored oestrogen signalling, and with that came actual improvements in bone density. Not maintained. Improved. The placebo group kept losing.

The peer-reviewed Phytomedicine trial. Published. Just not in the standard protocol.

What Oestrogen Actually Does Inside Your Bones

Your bones are constantly being torn down and rebuilt, every single day. Cells called osteoclasts break down old bone. Cells called osteoblasts build new bone behind them. When you are young, the two stay in balance and your skeleton replaces itself every ten years.

Oestrogen is the master controller of that whole process. It tells the osteoclasts when to stop, tells the osteoblasts to keep building, and tells both where to put the calcium.

After menopause, that controller disappears. The osteoclasts keep tearing bone down, faster and faster. The osteoblasts slow down. The collagen frame your bones are built on stops being replaced. And the calcium you swallow every morning shows up to a construction site with no foreman, no blueprint, and no frame to lock onto, so it dumps its load in your arteries and joints. That is not a calcium deficiency. That is an oestrogen deficiency wearing a calcium mask.

Left, oestrogen deficiency: runaway breakdown. Right, restored signalling: balanced rebuilding.

But What About Breast Cancer?

It is the first question most women ask when they hear the word oestrogen. And it should be. My sister had oestrogen-positive breast cancer, so I was not about to touch anything near oestrogen without being sure.

But there is a study where researchers tested shilajit directly on MCF-7 cells, the most common oestrogen-receptor-positive breast cancer cell type used in research. It actually triggered the cancer cells to self-destruct while leaving healthy cells alone. I had to read it 3 times. It is a published, peer-reviewed study anyone can look up.

The MCF-7 study. A compound that restores your own oestrogen signalling, yet kills oestrogen-positive cancer cells.

What Happened When I Found the Right Brand

When I called Janet back, she told me turning the signal on was only the start. A crew finally back at work still needs the right materials in front of it. So the formula that made sense was 3 things, each with a job.

The first turns the lights back on. A purified mineral resin called shilajit, from the Altai mountains. Scientists identified the active part as fulvic acid. It is not a hormone. It restores your own oestrogen signalling, so your bones get the rebuild signal again and your body makes its own collagen frame again.

The second is the right calcium. Not the chalky chemist kind, which is ground limestone that floats through you with nowhere to lock. This is pearl, calcium held together by a protein called conchiolin, the same crystal form living bone is actually made of. It is the difference between handing your bones a pile of dust and handing them the brick they are built from.

The third is silica, from bamboo, the richest source of it in nature. Silicon is the one thing that locks calcium onto the collagen frame and turns soft new bone into hard bone that holds. Calcium without silicon is rebar without concrete.

Signal, materials, and the lock that ties them together. That is the part no single bottle on the shelf could hand me.

Janet was just as firm on quality. The shilajit had to be purified resin, not powder, because the powder form destroys most of the fulvic acid in processing. At least 80% fulvic acid, which is what the clinical trials used. And independent third-party testing for heavy metals, because shilajit is harvested from high mountains and untested resin can carry lead or arsenic.

I looked on Amazon first, like everyone does. Powder capsules at 15 to 20 percent fulvic acid. Single ingredients sold alone, never the 3 working together. No lab testing. Most of it failed everything Janet told me to look for.

Then I found the Optimum Bone Restore Trifecta. 78% fulvic acid purified Altai resin, pearl, and bamboo silica in one formula. 3 small capsules a day. Dual-panel third-party testing for heavy metals and mycotoxins, results posted right on their site. It arrived in 4 days.

Shilajit at 78% fulvic acid, pearl, and bamboo silica. Signal, materials, and the lock, in one bottle.

I stopped buying the chalky calcium and the AlgaeCal. The Trifecta already had the calcium my bones could actually use, in the form they are built from, plus the signal to lay it and the silicon to lock it in. For the first time everything was working together instead of piling up where it did not belong.

Week 1, nothing. I almost sent it back. Week 2, I realised I had slept through the night without joint pain. Week 4, I went up my stairs normally, not one step at a time like a toddler. Week 6, my daughter asked if I wanted to go for a walk and I said yes without thinking.

Month 3, my grandson asked me to get down on the floor and build blocks with him, and I did it without even thinking about it. When we were done I stood right back up on my own, no hand on the coffee table, no counting to 3 first. 2 years ago I would have made an excuse and hated myself for it.

Month 3, on the floor with my grandson.

Month 5, I planted my entire vegetable garden. 4 hours kneeling, standing, kneeling again. My husband watched from the kitchen window, shaking his head. The joint stiffness that had been creeping in was gone.

Month 5. 4 hours in the garden. Life reclaimed.

The Scan That Proved Everything

When I showed up for my 6-month DEXA scan, my endocrinologist pulled up my original images, then the new ones, then the originals again. "This is remarkable," she said. "Your bone density increased. What changed?"

The 6-month DEXA follow-up that made her endocrinologist stop and ask what changed.

I told her everything. The late-night research. Janet's explanation. The Trifecta that turns the oestrogen signal back on and hands the bone the materials to rebuild. She took notes. "Why did nobody tell me about this before?" I asked. "Calcium and vitamin D are the standard protocol. HRT for those who can tolerate the risks."

Standard protocol nearly cost me my independence. My future with my grandson. The 15 good years I thought I had left.

Why This Works When Everything Else Failed

Here is the honest comparison, the way Janet laid it out. Your bones do not need more calcium dumped on them. They need the oestrogen signal that tells them to build, the right form of calcium to build with, and the silicon that locks it into the frame. Almost everything on the shelf hands you one of those 3 with the other 2 missing.

Calcium, D and AlgaeCal are building materials, but without the oestrogen signal directing them they end up everywhere except your bones. The better-absorbing calcium making the rounds found one true piece and sold it alone, with the signal still switched off. Prolia and Fosamax slow bone loss by shutting down the cells that break bone down, but they do not build new bone, and a denser number on a scan is not a stronger bone. HRT restores oestrogen but most doctors will not prescribe it ten years past menopause because of the risks. The Bone Restore Trifecta is the only one that turns the signal back on, hands your bones the calcium in the form they are built from, and locks it into the frame with silicon, all at once.

What They Are Not Telling You About "Normal Aging"

Bone loss after menopause is not inevitable. It feels inevitable because for decades the only advice anyone gave us was take more calcium. But calcium was never the problem. Oestrogen was.

The stairs you started taking one at a time. The things you blamed on getting older. None of it had to be permanent.

When you restore that oestrogen signalling naturally, all the calcium you have faithfully taken for decades finally has somewhere to go. Your bones can rebuild. Not just slow their decline. Actually rebuild.

The Moment Everything Changed

Last week my daughter asked if I wanted to go hiking at the country park. The trail with the lookout we used to do before Mom got sick. 2 years ago I would have said no and felt my heart break a little. Last week, I said yes. We hiked 3 miles and I did not need to stop once.

The lookout we used to do before Mom got sick. 3 miles up, and I did not stop once.

On the drive home she said something that broke me. "I was so scared you were going to end up like Grandma." "Me too," I said. But I am not.

8 months apart. From dreading the stairs to planning hikes with my daughter.

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Where Can I Get the Bone Restore Trifecta?

The Bone Restore Trifecta is only available on the official website. The shilajit in it is purified Altai resin at 78% fulvic acid, paired with pearl and bamboo silica, and every batch is dual-panel third-party tested for heavy metals and mycotoxins. It is not on Amazon and not in Boots, because they cannot control the quality on those shelves.

Shilajit at 78% fulvic acid, pearl, and bamboo silica, dual-panel third-party tested. Only on the official site.

Every order is backed by a 6-month money-back guarantee. You either love your results, or you get a full refund. No questions asked. 6 months, because that is how long the trial took for the women to turn their bone around.

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Dr. Jennifer Norton, MD

Leading Orthopedic Doctor

Dr. Norton has spent over two decades treating postmenopausal women with bone loss. She shares patient stories like this one to help women understand what is actually happening to their bones, and what can be done about it.